Being Spoiled by LovelyCheyenne.

My first flirt night went well!  Sorry I am so late in updating, but my roommate and I are moving to a larger condo. 

I had a total of five calls.  (A few minute men out there but that is alright with me!  I love quickies.)  I don’t plan to go into detail about my calls unless the caller mentions they would like 15 minutes of fame.  (I still won’t mention names.) 

I think I am going to enjoy my flirting on niteflirt.  Saturday was fun and after our move plan on seeing me on 7 nights a week.    I will update with my times over the weekend.

Oh and for the guy who wanted to know if it was “real for me”, yes love, after all if I am not enjoying myself with our flirting role-play, how can I expect you tooo!?  Thank you so much for being the first to tip me!  I am thinking of something extra special for you.

That is all for now.  Until next time….

Hugs and Kisses

LovelyCheyene

Saturday the 15th, I take the plunge, so to speak.  Saturday will be my first official day as a flirt.  (Although I signed up to try in 2006.)

Wish me luck and if you have the time give me a call! 

www.niteflirt.com/LovelyCheyenne

In other news…

My ex called me today, and I thought, “Here we go again.”, but have no fear, I listened to his problems and gave him some advice and told him I had to go.  He knows he lost a good woman in me.  I will be there as a friend, but he will no longer venture into my bed.  (Now if he calls me up on niteflirt that is another story.) 

I met my new neighbor today while out for my jog.  He was running but I managed to catch him a few times and make small talk.  I have to find something to take to him as a welcoming gift.  Um wonder if I can wrap myself up in a bow and deliver myself for the afternoon!

I am currently debating if I should tell my sister about being a flirt.  On one hand I say no, but since I need a bit of help making a website the other hand says yes.  More on that later after I debate a bit longer.

Once I decided to flirt I began thinking about how and why?  The why was easy, I wanted to meet and talk with different people and fulfill my desire to please others, albeit sexually pleasing, but all the same to please and have a little fun myself. 

Now the how, a lot of it has to do with who I am.  By nature I love to please, not sure if I am submissive, (I will venture into that at some point just to be sure.) but I love knowing I have made someones day.

As a flirt, I cater to those who need… to be spoiled by a woman, a boost in their ego, someone to listen to their ups and downs, someone to be there when their significant other won’t or if they are in-between that significant other.  

If you found me from my flirt website, welcome and I hope you check in often!  If you found me just by reading or from a search, welcome to you as well, and please know you are always welcome to check out my website.

My flirt website can be found at www.niteflirt.com/LovelyCheyenne, check it out.

Yes, I know, very unoriginal I know, but I could not think of another title that was fitting.  It has been over three years since my life changing event.  Life changing to me at least, the love of my life decided he didn’t want to spend the rest of his life with me.  I cried nonstop for weeks, well it felt that way. 

Between the tears, I had several offers of blind dates, outings with friends to pick up dates, and even going out with a friend to find out she had set me up on a date.  (More about that in a post to come.)  In the end I hated dating, after all I had been with the love of my life since the ninth grade!  After a several dateless months, I began playing a few online games and I noticed the number of people feeling a void with online relationships and romance. 

I mentioned this to a friend of mine, that I met online, and she told me about her online relationships and how it fulfilled her desire to feel needed but after a while it didn’t fulfill her need for distance.  Basically she wanted an escape from her everyday life, but only for a short time.   After a time her beaus, as she called them, would want more, such as real life meetings, real life sex, and some even wanted her to leave her families for them.  She gave up online relationships until she found niteflirt.com, it opened up a whole new world for her and, after she told me about it, for me. 

I thought about and went as far to make a listing, but the very night I was going to log on I received a call from, you guessed it, the love of my life.  We spoke about his mistake of leaving me, how we were both fresh out of high school and that the break up made him feel closer to me.  So after that call my life seemed to start over and I seemed to forget about niteflirt.

Now I am sure everyone saw this next part coming, I realized he was not the love of my life and this time I dumped him.   It took me over a year and even though I had dumped him I felt as bad as I did when he dumped me. 

Fast forward to last week I decided I simply didn’t want to venture out into the dating world again, not just yet, I wanted the communication without the strings attached.   So, without another thought, I found my niteflirt information and logged in and decided I was entering another phase of my life.

Welcome and I look forward to including my readers on this new phase. 

More to come later….